Throughout our time as wedding coordinators, we have had countless couples wondering if they should do a first look, or save that moment for when they walk down the aisle. Of course the two of you as a couple should discuss your preferences, but we have noted a few perks of doing a first look over the years.

ALONE TIME

One of the most common reasons that couples are thankful that they did a first look is because of the intimacy of the moment. In the hustle and bustle of the entire day, this may be the only chance that couples get to be alone and have some quiet time together. With the day being so busy and filled with so many people to see and talk to, it can quickly get stressful. Doing a first look and seeing your best friend early in the day can help calm some of those crazy nerves! It also gives the opportunity to exchange gifts or read letters to one another.

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PHOTOS

Another perk of a first look is everything photos (and your photographer will totally back us up on this)! Doing a first look allows your photographer to guarantee a great photo of the groom’s reaction to seeing his bride for the first time. If this is done during the ceremony, there is the risk that the photographer will not be able to capture the moment as well due to guests being in the way, a weird angle, or being too far away. Even worse, there is the possibility that the photographer could miss the reaction completely due to these same circumstances. 

Another perk is that your hair and makeup will be fresh for photos, with no tears from the ceremony yet! This means that you can be looking (and feeling) your best for the first look, as well as couples photos and bridal party group shots. By getting all of these photos done early on in the day, it leaves extra time to spend with guests during cocktail hour.

MULTIPLE FIRST LOOKS?

A fun trend that we have seen becoming increasingly popular is doing a first look with other important individuals in your life. This could be with your dad, mom, bridesmaids, groomsmen, or anyone else you want to share that special moment with. You could also surprise the groom with a first look of someone else when he is expecting the bride. This is a fun way to lighten the mood and get a good laugh when you may be feeling stressed about the big day ahead! If you would like to add these to your day, make sure to let your coordinator and photographer know. That way it can be effectively worked into the timeline, and we can make sure you do not cross paths too early!

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Overall, doing a first look is a choice that can be made only by you and your partner. We have seen wedding days go smoothly both ways! There are many perks to doing a first look, and we have heard nothing but positive words from couples who have decided to do one. It takes a great amount of pressure off of the already stressful ceremony, so that the first time you see one another is peaceful and sure to be remembered to its fullest! 

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